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PM dilemma of the week

One situation from a project, four possible moves, one best. They are hard on purpose: in each, two options look right, and the difference is who owns the decision, what comes first, or what PMI's standards ask for when the pressure says otherwise. Pick one, then reveal the answer.

This week

Peopleagile

You lead a distributed product team: four people in Skopje, two in Tetovo, one working remotely from Prilep.

Over the past three Sprints the Prilep developer's contribution has dropped. They keep their camera off, answer in the Daily Scrum with a single sentence, and no longer join the Sprint Retrospective. The team lead in Skopje tells you the rest of the team is "carrying" them and wants them replaced before the next release; two developers have started leaving the person out of design discussions.

The developer's work, when it arrives, is still of good quality.

What should you do first?

Pick the option that looks best to you, then reveal the answer.

Answer revealed. The best answer is C. Have a private one-to-one with the developer to understand what is happening, before any decision about the team or the release.

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Best answer

CHave a private one-to-one with the developer to understand what is happening, before any decision about the team or the release.

A change in one person's behaviour, with their work still good, is a signal about the person - health, home, a conflict on the team, or the isolation of being the only one in Prilep. Emotional intelligence means noticing, then finding out, in private, before acting.

The question is not whether the situation needs the team's attention - it does - but what comes first. A private conversation costs an hour and changes every other decision: if the developer is unwell, the release plan changes; if the problem is the two colleagues excluding them, it is a team matter and belongs, carefully, in the Retrospective; if it is the isolation of remote work, the virtual-team practices are yours to fix. Two items are already on your list after the one-to-one - the exclusion that has started, and the release risk, which is real but is a Product Owner and Sprint Planning conversation, not a personnel one. Doing them in that order is the difference between leading a team and processing it.

Why the other options are tempting but wrong

  • A. The Retrospective is where the team improves how it works together. It is not a place to examine one person's behaviour in front of colleagues who have already started excluding them - and that person has stopped attending, which tells you something about how safe it would feel.

  • B. This executes the team lead's diagnosis without checking it. Good work arriving late from someone who has gone silent is not a performance problem until you know what it is - and a replacement mid-release costs more than the release risk it is meant to remove.

  • D. Everyone will know who it is about, including the developer, and it converts a person's situation into a rule enforcement. It is the manager avoiding a conversation, dressed as fairness.

Where this sits in PMI

PMBOK Guide 7th ed., Team performance domain; PMI Code of Ethics and Professional Conduct - Respect 3.2.1-3.2.2 (we inform ourselves about the norms and customs of others; we listen to others' points of view, seeking to understand them). Agile Practice Guide, servant leadership. PMP ECO, People domain: emotional intelligence and virtual teams.

Exam Content Outline tasks (PMP ECO) · 2026

  • People 3 - Lead the project team
  • People 8 - Plan and manage communication

How they are written

The dilemmas are written by the chapter and are original - not questions from the PMI exam, nor from any prep book. The difficulty is deliberately that of the real PMP exam: the answer is what PMI's standards ask for (PMBOK Guide 7, the Agile Practice Guide, the Code of Ethics and Professional Conduct), not what “usually gets done”. If you think another option is better, write to us - the best discussions start that way.

PMP, PMBOK and PMI are registered marks of the Project Management Institute, Inc. The dilemmas are not PMI material and do not replace the official PMP Examination Content Outline.